Are you teachable? The last 15 years have been a whirlwind of growth for me, and the foundation of it has been God opening my eyes to receive rebuke and wisdom from those positioned to be my enemies.
You can learn wisdom from even the most hardened criminal, so never buy into the idea all your teachers need to be puritanical or hyper-moral.
If that is the case, your idols will eventually be destroyed as God works to purify your perspective of fallen men and women. God moves through even the Nebuchadnezzars of the world.